What’s on and what’s taboo for you?
Don’t be afraid to ask specifically
what you would like to try, and see
what your partner thinks.
If you are planning to try something new,
such as spanking, impact play, biting,
or scratching, make sure to discuss
your intentions first with your partner,
Last Tango in Paris
The man is middle-aged, leonine, ravaged.
The girl is young, fox-like, insouciant.
Total strangers to each other, they are
inspecting an unfurnished Paris apartment
that is for rent.
Suddenly, the man scoops the girl up in
his arms,carries her to the side of the
room, then embraces and kisses her hungrily.
He tears off her panties and has sex
with her while still dressed and standing.
Any moviegoers who are not shocked, titillated,
disgusted, fascinated, delighted or angered
by this early scene in Bernardo Bertolucci’s
movie, Last Tango in Paris, should be patient.
There is more to come. Much more. Bertolucci
has marshaled his opulent visual style to tell
a stark story of sex as a be-all and end-all.
For boldness and brutality, the intimate scenes
are unprecedented in feature films. Frontal nudity,
four-letter words, masturbation, even sodomy.
Better Anal Sex
Position. All fucking positions
are not created equal, so explore some of the
anal sex positions that are best for beginners,
as they let the receiver take more control.
Lube. Lubricant or a high-quality
intimate moisturizer is essential for anal sex.
The more the better. Apply enough to squeeze
a manatee through a letterbox, and then apply more.
The more lube involved, the more pleasurable
it will be for both of you. It’s as simple as that.
Condoms. Condoms are great for anal,
and not only because they enhance your sexual safety.
Condoms actually make anal sex better because their
smoothness responds better to lube than skin does.
Condoms glide easier, and as a result are more
comfortable. What’s more, they can help prevent
the thrusting partner from climaxing too soon.
The parts you see on the outside (pubes,
labia, clitoris) is the vulva.
It’s packed with highly sensitive nerve endings.
She’ll love it when you stroke, tweak, rub, even pinch.
There are many ways of stimulating this pleasure dome.
Some women enjoy clitoral contact.
Others like having their labia touched, the outside
pubic bone massaged, two or more fingers inserted
into their vagina. The fun part for you is finding out.
Some Like It Rough
On a whim one night while kissing, I climbed
onto his lap so he could spank me. He’d done
nothing to indicate he liked to spank.
He could have looked at me bug-eyed and confused.
But he knew exactly what I wanted, how to hold me,
what to say. He used his hand and later on,
in his bedroom, a belt.
Then I let him put his hands round my throat
and squeeze. I let him slap me across the face,
over and over again.
I’d never let a man do those things before,
not that anyone had asked. A key unlocked.
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