Sensual Massage For Her
Begin by lightly stroking her body with the tips of your fingers. Start with the back, and then move to the shoulders, arms, buttocks, thighs and calves.
Remember to use only light, teasing strokes. When you sense that she’s relaxed, you are ready to progress to massage.These are key areas for an erotic vulva and labia massage. Know how to touch and manipulate these highly sensitive areas will earn lots of browny-points!
Pour about two tablespoons of massage oil into the palm of your hand, and rub your hands together lightly. When the oil is warm and evenly distributed, begin massaging her back with long, deep strokes.
At the beginning, communicate frequently with her to determine if the strokes are too hard or too soft. Keep your hands in contact with your partner at all times, take your time with each rhythmic-yet-sensitive stroke, and proceed from long, gliding strokes to shorter, deeper strokes.
Use your body weight rather than your arm strength for deep strokes; during gliding strokes, keep your knees slightly bent and fluid, and don’t lean over the table.
Once you have developed a rhythm that pleases both of you, move on to the shoulders and arms, and progress to the legs and feet, brushing the buttocks as you move up and down your partner’s body.
Ask her to turn over. Begin massaging the chest, arms and hands. Pay special attention to your female partner’s breasts: don’t be too invasive at this stage, but don’t ignore them.
Lightly stroke the nipples and undersides. Glide down to the legs, brushing the genitals on your way down. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals.
Tease her by brushing her thighs near the genitals, and very lightly touching the pubic region.
Allow the erotic energy to build until it seems like a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities.
Start by gently rubbing the entire vulva, follow with clitoral stimulation, and finish with internal and clitoral stimulation — don’t forget the G-Spot!
Remember that vaginal penetration usually doesn’t feel good unless she is already in a fairly high state of arousal. If she’s comfortable, feel free to use a vibrator to assist you in the massage.
Before you begin, you need to have a few things handy, namely massage oil, a clean towel, a bed and, of course, privacy. The last thing you want is to be interrupted by the doorbell or a ringing phone.
The towel is mandatory as it will not only protect the sheets from absorbing massage oil, but it will also allow your girl to feel more secure when she reaches climax, as she may ejaculate. That’d be amazing, right?
A word about the lubricant. Phase two of the massage is the actual vaginal stimulation which, as you may have guessed, will be done with your penis.
If you plan on using a condom, you should opt for a water based lubricant. If not, an oil based lubricant such as the grape seed oil will work better for the massage.
Lie your partner on her back, then climb on top of her, on her buttocks. Apply massage oil to your hands and start a light massage all across her back, from top to bottom. Make sure you don’t apply too much pressure as this is just the warm-up.
Don’t try anything sexual yet, just make sure she’s relaxed and enjoying herself.
Once you’ve done the warm-up, start applying more pressure when you massage her shoulders and upper back. Go down again to her lower back, her buttocks and her inner thighs.
Once she’s comfortable with you massaging her inner thighs, you can transition your way to her clitoris. Take your time, though, don’t rush this as she’ll lose the relaxed state she’s in. pay close attention to her reaction whenever you explore a new area of your body.
Don’t forget to apply more massage oil from time to time, either.
After a few more minutes of clitoris stimulation, it’s time to slide a finger inside her vagina. Use the classic “come here” motion of your finger, only make sure your palm is facing down, not up. This is because she’s lying on her back and her g-spot is at the bottom.
Once you’ve continued this for a few more minutes, you can safely start putting your penis inside her. Do it as slowly as you inserted your finger.
You’ll have plenty of time to do it hardcore some other time as right now your focus should be on giving her her (first) vaginal orgasm. It’s all about her this time.
How do you stimulate her with her penis? Just make sure you start slow, then increase speed, then slow down again and so on until you feel she’s ready to climax.
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